Sunday, April 25, 2010

Our last night in Paradise

At first I wondered where all the fabulous green hills were. 

For me, this was the most anticipated place on our itinerary.  But getting there was hectic and making sense of the directions was a bit confusing although Brian had printed out plenty of instructions.

During the entire hour and a half drive, my finger throbbed miserably and I wondered if I might lose the fingernail.  When we loaded the suitcases in the back of the car, I got my finger nearly permanently wedged between my sisters suitcase and the lousy wheels on the thing.  I yelped and knew the worse was yet to come when I had to yank my finger out otherwise I would be carrying the danged thing by one poor fingernail the entire trip.  I cursed my sister when I finally got up the courage to pull my fingernail out from the evil thing.

An hour later we slowly made our way up some small hillsides.

Where are the valleys, where are the hills, where is the lush countryside?  My heart began to sink a little thinking I was going to be more than disappointed in my expectation.

THEN, as the road narrowed and curled and "ssss" around, the descent was barely noticable.   As we rounded curve after curve, the edges of the road dropped off to breaktaking views.

I wanted to tell Brian to look, but I was afraid he would and I didn't want his eyes off the crazy winding roads.



We had long decided to stay in Volterra after watching a Rick Steves show on Tuscany and he named it his favorite.  An agriturismo is a working farm and after much research, we verified San Lorenzo Podere to be the perfect location for our stay by seaching on flickr.com and finding Rnout's pictures and posting a comment.  He's from Amsterdam and was very helpful in helping us make our decision.  Although flickr is a photo sharing site, it's a great way to get feedback from people who have visited anywhere you might want to go.


By law, an agriturismo must make more profit from their farm than their hospitalities.  San Lorenzo Podere is an olive farm.  The dining room, back in the 1200's was originally a monastery for a small group of monks.  The frescos can still be seen near the window.



When we arrived, we were exhausted from the train rides and the car trip, so we all took a long nap.  Our room was next to the dining room and around five we were all awakened by the amazing aroma emanating from supper being prepared from Marinella and her staff.  Each night there was a full seven course genuine Tuscan slice of heaven.  Brian was hooked on the spaghetti carbanara which is unmatched throughout the world.

The peace and quiet was exactly what we needed in the middle of our trip and "our" agriturismo was perfect with it's breathtaking views and natural pool.  We soon learned a natural pool meant that should you decide to swim, you would likely be joined with the melodious frogs that would sing a beautiful frog chorus for the guests.




Surrounding us was the olive fields.


Brian was lucky enough to return in October when the olives were ripened and caught this picture of Marinella harvesting the olives.


On his second trip, Brian brought me back a bottle of San Lorenzo's olive oil.  Of course I can never use it, although I would love to.



Sadly, it was one year ago tonight we were spending our last night at this heavenly place, planning our next adventure to Rome the next day.

There is more to tell about Volterra and Tuscany itself, but I'll save that for the next post.  Needless to say, this was a tie for the top favorite place in Italy. 

I can't wait to return.



Wednesday, April 21, 2010

My Favorite Part of Italy

REPOST:

One year ago today, I was watching this sunset on the Italy coast.  I want to go back!!!!




We've argued this point. Brian and I. The places we chose to go were so different and so wonderful that's it's very difficult to actually name a favorite.

We started planning a year in advance, studying, reading, researching. Obviously there were easy choices, Rome, Tuscany, Venice.

I first heard of a not-so-obvious choice when I was waiting on a flight out of Indy to Fort Myers, months before we finally selected our itinerary. Bob had flown out earlier in the day, so I was at the airport alone. I was wanting to learn Italian and stopped at the Rosetta Stone kiosk. (By the way, they are way overpriced at airports.)

While listening to the vendor, a middle-age man was slightly behind me. We struck up a conversation and, as it turned out, he and his wife had been to Italy the previous year.

Then he told me their favorite place. Somewhere I had never heard of.

Cinque Terre.

I sat next to him with my Italy book and he told me about these wonderful towns. Five of them (duh, Cinque). I shared the story with Brian and the more we researched, the more we decided we had to find a way to include it in the itinerary.

Wikipedia says: "The Cinque Terre is noted for its beauty. Over centuries, people have carefully built terraces on the rugged, steep landscape right up to the cliffs that overlook the sea. Part of its charm is the lack of visible "modern" development. Paths, trains and boats connect the villages, and cars cannot reach it from the outside. It is a very popular tourist destination."

"Rugged, steep landscape"? No, they are not kidding.

This is my picture, which is almost exactly like every picture you will find online when you google Cinque Terre.
 

This is Manarola, the least "touristy" of the five towns.  We chose Manarola after alot, and I do mean alot of research.

Our best and most reliable research came from flickr.com.   No, it's not a travel site, it's a picture website.  Typing in a destination and finding people's picture, adding a comment asking for information and.....you get real live feedback on great places to stay.  (This is also how we found our lovely agriturismo in Volterra.)  In Manarola we stayed at Arpaiu.  Their Odina room was an efficiency with two doors that opened directly out to the cliff.

A little closer look at where we stayed.  The orange building with the green shutters that looked directly out to the sea.



Yes, we stayed at the very top of the cliff.  And no, there was no method of reaching the top without walking. 

It's a great place for college kids with all of their luggage stuffed in their backpacks.  For a couple of old ladies and a mid-30 guy who had back surgery 3 weeks prior to our trip.......it was still a great place, just not one easy to get to. 

But it was worth it.

From what I have been able to discern, Cinque Terre was "developed" in 1000 AD.  All I can say is those people had to have been some badasses to manage to build on a cliff side.  Add to that, there was quite a few pirates who found a method to scale the cliffsides and kidnap people.  Geez, we have grown soft compared to the people of that age.

The view out of our room was breathtaking.  The Mediterranean is cold (at least in April), rugged, and crystal blue.




Helen - at the foot of our cliff, in front of the dog rock.



Brian, on the hike between Manarola and Riomaggoire.

Corniglia was our first hike.  I loved the town and found the best pizza in all of Italy there.

On our last night in Manarola, we revisited a restaurant that had the most wonderful minestrone.  Since Brian's back was not cooperating since we sat for awhile on rocks on the Mediterranean, we were planning on heading straight there.

On a whim I decided, despite the argument my calves were giving me, to venture UP the path of Manarola.   I strolled, taking in the stream, the town, the locals and rounded a corner where I literally gasped when I came upon this:
I felt absolutely drawn.  I entered the outer doors where I could hear a service.  Not wanting to interfere, I listened through the crack of the inner doors.   Even though I couldn't understand one word, the chills just ran through me.  I remained there for a couple of minutes and then quietly, awestruck, I left.  

Helen and Brian were making their way up as I descended the "hill".  By the time we reached back up to the church, the service was over and we entered The Church of San Lorenzo, which was built in 1338 AD.  It took my breath away, more so than any grand Basillica throughout Italy.  It was like finding a diamond when you were looking for a rhinestone.

I want to go back.  We spent three nights in Manarola.   Next time I want a week there.  Vernazza, Manarola and Corniglia were soooo worth it.  The Italian Riviera, sounds exotic, doesn't it?

So Cinque Terre and Volterra in Tuscany were a toss up as my favorite places.  Each were special, but then so was Venice and Rome and the Amalfi Coast. 

Pisa?  It has a tower that leans.  I can say I've seen it, but it was the least impressive part of the trip.  It qualifies as one of those "been there, done that".  I would not classify any other part of Italy like that.   Every other place far exceeded my expectations.

The minestone:



Toes dipped into the Mediterranian.

Brian crossing the suspension bridge on a hike between Manarola and Corniglia


Braving the cold splash.  He looks cool here, right?  That's only because I've promised not to post the picture taken a second later where he is turning away like a little girl.  But.... he got a fascinating shot.











Friday, April 16, 2010

I Asked Her

It was 30 years ago. Before remote controls were the norm.

I was staying all night at her house and I wanted to watch a movie when she and her husband were deciding to go to bed.

So I asked her, "Is it really scary?" She said no.

So off to bed they went, probably 10 pm or so and I began to watch the movie alone.

The opening scenes were not scary of course, but the music, oh God, the music. It began to creep me out immediately.



I laid on the floor, close to the TV, so I could turn down the sound when it seemed to get too loud. It started out that the music was the loudest.

Of course, the storyline was fascinating and the cast, amazing.

The first time I had to quickly change the channel was when I first saw these two.


They started to freak me out.

Everytime they showed the girls, I reached up and changed the channel. 

The night got later and later and I felt very alone in the house.





















Between the "Danny's not here, Mrs Torrence" and the "REDRUM"  I was hooked and spent the late evening jumping up to change the channel whenever the blood came streaming through the hallways.











I could not believe my own sister told me this movie was NOT scary. 

To this day it's one of the best and scariest movies ever made.

The next morning when I talked to her about the show, my sister said, "Well, I got to thinking about that, I guess it's not really scary if you're watching it in the middle of the afternoon with a house full of people, probably watching it all alone at night it would be scary."

Yeah, thanks for that sis.

And here I am thirty years later watching it alone late at night.  Bob went off to bed,  we're in our Florida vacation home and I have my internet friends to keep me from feeling too scared and the remotes right next to me to change when it gets too scary.

Monday, March 29, 2010

What This World Needs

What this world needs


Is not another one hit wonder with an axe to grind













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Another two bit politician peddling lies


Another three ring circus society

What this world needs


Is not another sign waving super saint that's better than you








Another ear pleasing candy man afraid of the truth
Another prophet in an Armani suit



What this world needs is a Savior who will rescue
A Spirit who will lead
A Father who will love them in their time of need
A Savior who will rescue
A Spirit who will lead
A Father who will love
That's what this world needs

What this world needs
Is for us to care more about the inside than the outside
Have we become so blind that we can't see
God's gotta change her heart before He changes her shirt


What this world needs
Is for us to stop hiding behind our relevance
Blending in so well that people can't see the difference
And it's the difference that sets the world free.

Ripped off from the lyrics of a Casting Crowns song.

And as a postscript, it was just a fluke the whackos from the KS church had a sign that said, "Rita is God's Wrath".  I THINK they were referring to Hurricane Rita and NOT me.

Sunday, March 28, 2010

Establishing Priorities



I'm sure I've made it abundantly clear by now that I have been working too much and having to keep a few people in line.  My issue is that some people can't figure out priorities.  At least one of the main players can't seem to figure out what to do on his own and interrupts people with issues that are significantly lower on the priority list.  He's never happy when I overrule him.

I've been preaching this "priority" lesson for over five weeks now and I can't seem to get the message through to the slacker.

1)  Keeping the company in business.
2)  Be able to sell the products.
3)  Being able to deliver and transfer the products.

Seems simple, right?   Who couldn't understand the priority list?

Today, there was another priority lesson, this one much clearer than the one I had been yelling.  It was not taught by yelling, it was not taught by me and it was not taught to the slacker. 

It was delivered to me.

The hours are cutting back a little but I had to get up for an early morning conference call again.  This one was faster than normal and we were done by 8, quicker than I expected.

So after the call, we hurried off to a place we hadn't been in waaay too long.  Below is my "ripoff" of the priority lesson that slapped me hard today.


Did you worship here?



What about here?



And here?




And even here?



Your answer? ......................................

Yeah, me neither.

Time to get back to REAL priorities.

Thursday, March 18, 2010

Just Call Me Bruce

I try never to write anything about work.   I make sure that every post would be something I could defend if it was suddenly front page news.

So today, all I can say is this was me:


                   "Welcome to the party, pal". 

If you don't remember this part, it was when McClane was trying to get help from the police.  The cruiser had pulled up and looked around, but didn't get there was a big problem in the building.  McClane blasts the cruiser with his automatic weapon. When the cop backs up and goes off an embankment after the car was riddled with shots and McClane says this great line.

Suffice it to say, I'm not exactly ONE person's favorite right now and I like it that way.

Monday, March 15, 2010

Why I don't like most women.

Apparently a large portion of women are born with a gene where they like to bash each other behind their backs.

If you want a couple of  perfect examples, here they are.




Or these:



These ladies remind me I why I generally don't like working with women.

I found my elementary and junior high school years filled with girls that could not be friends with more than one person.  If there are three junior high girls together, I guarantee you two of them will gang up on the third.  It is a trait that seems exclusive to the female gender and one that alot of women never outgrow.

So I can say I "generally" don't like working with women.  I have to stress the "generally" because the field I am in is mainly dominated by men, so most of the women that I do and have worked with over several years outgrew that junior high mentality and behave more like men do.  They can be good friends with lots of people and they don't go get their feelings hurt and try to get the other women to on "their side" in an argument. 

I hate to admit it, but I'm hooked on Real Housewives, which seems weird to me since I hate women who nitpick behind other women's backs. I don't know, maybe it makes me feel superior to them even with all their money and glamour because I have long outgrown the need to take sides on stupid women arguments.

One of my very best friends for over 25 years now started like this.  We would go on break and there was a third girl who was friends with Debbie.  I could tell this third girl didn't like it that Debbie and I were friends, it was subtle at first.

One day I sat down in the breakroom at our normal time and in walked Maggie.  Instead of sitting at the same table like we normally did, she sat at the other table.  I could see what was happening.  When Debbie came down, she would be forced to "choose" which was her better friend.  I remember thinking how ridiculous it was given that jr.high was years before.  I could see Debbie's confusion when she came down and she finally sat down with Maggie.  Did I interpret that as Debbie being Maggie's friend over me?  Nope, I thought Debbie assessed which friend would deal with it as an adult and not a teenager.

I made up my mind to not ever say anything to Debbie about how ridiculous this jr. high girl mentality was.  She was a smart lady, she could figure it out eventually.

A couple weeks later, Debbie was ordering something from a Hanes Catalog.  All the women normally made it one order so we could get a better discount.  Since Debbie worked close to me, we had our orders ready and Maggie came by with the catalog.  When Debbie told her she could add to the order so we could get a larger discount, Maggie decided she didn't want to place her order with mine.  OK, we were only in our 20's, but geez, how immature can you get?

It wasn't long afterward that Maggie and Debbie's friendship cooled significantly when they went out with their husbands and Maggie thought it was her opportunity to bash on me.  Now remember, I had not said one word to Debbie what I saw was going on with this jr. high girl rivalry that I refused to participate in.  Debbie told me later that after listening to Maggie drone on about me for 15 minutes, Debbie told her that I was her friend and that she would not listen to anything else.  Maggie wasn't very happy.

It was only after that night that Debbie ever mentioned to me how she felt she was being pushed by Maggie to not be friends with me and I finally told her that I realized it was going on for months.

So,  that's why I would prefer to work with men.  By and large, men don't play those stupid jr high girl games and more than a majority of the women do.  Any women I encounter that play that game are quickly eliminated from my list of people I associate with.    Debbie and I are like sisters over 25 years later.  And I have a number of women I have worked with over the years that I dearly love and will remain friends with forever.   All of them left jr high school behind them years ago. 

I choose my friends wisely.

Wednesday, March 10, 2010

It's Mine All Mine


I won it.  Really.   I wouldn't pull your leg.

OK, I confess.  It's not true.  I did not win the lottery.  That would have been impossible since I don't play the lottery, although Bob does now and then.

But with this crazy work that's been going on, I really wonder what EXACTLY I would do after immediately winning the lottery. 

Who doesn't imagine winning the lottery and telling your work, "bye bye" the very next day? 

So, let's go down the path of fantasy land. 

There have been plenty of jobs, maybe most of my jobs where I would do just that.  I have worked my entire life to some day provide us with a comfortable retirement.  I haven't regretted working.  I've worked for some wonderful people and I have worked with Lucifer himself and I've managed to manuever through that minefield for more than 30 years now.

Three years ago I was forced into a career change in an entirely new industry due to my company going bankrupt.  Technically, I am now self-employed as I'm working as a contractor with a company that is growing fast, but the basis is a family business and that mentality of all that is good about a family business has been maintained.

Significant project, rolled out almost three weeks ago.  We are suffering through bringing ancient programming code, nearly as old as hieroglyphics into today's world.  Working with a skeletal IT staff, where the complete understanding of the business and IT is wrapped up into only one brain.  On top of this major project are suddenly all kinds of personal issues with the IT staff and their families.  The Spock Brain of the operation lost his mother-in-law last Friday and there are other health issues abounding within the staff that are not insignificant.

My job?  Officially it's Project Manager of this major project.  Which means you do anything that needs done that helps the subject matter experts keep seated and doing their jobs long past the time any reasonably sane person would work. 

These people are all hard working, committed, fun people.  They overwork themselves, to the point I worry they won't be able to function.  While I've been putting in 80 hour weeks, at least four or five of them have put in well over 100 hours or more.  When I object about how much they are working, they are soooo quick to point out they are ALOT younger than I am.  No, they aren't clueless to what they are saying, they mean it and they love to slam me that I'm the old lady of the group.  I'm good with that as long as they keep working.  And I wait for my time to find an even better smart remark back.  It's the way we roll and laugh through the chaos.

So....

If I woke up tomorrow and realized I had mega millions now waiting for me at the lottery office, what would I do?

Would I cash in the money and tell all of these good hardworking people good luck but I'm outta there? 

"Hey I would be glad to continue to help you, but I don't need the money now, so you're on your own."

As crazy as it seems in my head, I could not do that.  I couldn't leave in the middle of rolling out this project and telling people that I've worked with for three years, people that I have grown to love and care about that I don't care enough to help get this project running smoothly enough they don't need me. 

I cannot imagine doing that.  I don't think I could enjoy the freedom the money would provide by knowing I have made it worse for the people I work with.  And NO, don't suggest I just split the winnings with them so all of them could quit, THAT is not happening even more. 

But I am tired.  I want things to smooth out.  I told Bob this morning that I was going to call in "retired" but he wasn't keen on that idea.  So I got up again, in the office by 7 and volunteered for the support line until 10 tonight, which really lasted until after 11.  I can't wait for a day off. 

If I was still working for Lucifer, all bets are off and I'm "outta there", maybe without even calling in at all. 

Monday, March 8, 2010

Bob Called It

We don't see alot of movies.  Some years we are lucky if we manage to see one or two.  A couple months ago it seemed there were several coming out that looked interesting.

You might remember my post on The Blind Side.  Wonderful movie. 

When we walked out of the theatre, Bob said, "Sandra Bullock should win an Oscar for that one." 



I was surprised because Bob doesn't really get into awards shows and we both get confused between the Oscars and the Emmy's and then they throw in the Golden Globes.

So, Bob was right.  She got the Oscar.  She was amazing, but I still liked Tim McGraw in it too.  No, his performance wasn't worthy of an award, but I liked the way they played together and I thought he did a decent job considering he's a singer not an actor.

As a side note, I'm hoping I can get back to some regular work hours soon.  Just finished the second straight week of over 80 hours and it appears this one won't be much better since I've already put in 14 hours.

Saturday, February 27, 2010

Working

So far this week, I have managed to..........

Cause the head of operations to call his father/owner to ask him why he was sticking his nose in the operations because I mis-identified an executive for the owner.

Accidentally hit the wrong IM person and sent a message complaining about a co-worker not working on anything important by sending it to the very person who wasn't working on anything important.  Great way to get your point across, in a very bad way.

And the best was when I was wondering if a co-workers wife was still out of town since I received an email from her (she also works there).  However I managed to ask the question at a really inappropriate time.

Guy:  "Oh, I forgot, I have to go home to let the dog out."
Me:  "I thought Jenny was out of town."

Took me a full 5 seconds to realize why it seemed as if I had thrown a grenade in the room. 

I claim sleep deprivation.  75 hour week with about 10 hours sleep. 

That's my story and I'm sticking to it.

Friday, February 19, 2010

This Old House with Random Memories


This is where I grew up.  Before my dad built on and built on and built on.  We moved in when I was four years old.  Four kids, two bedrooms, one bath and five acres to run around on like rugrats.  What are rugrats?  I guess I really don't know, but I remember being called one fairly often.

Sitting on the front porch is the box where the glass jugs of milk were delivered.  Two gallons a week.  I remember that shortly after we finally had wall to wall carpet installed in the living room, my brother Mark carried in the glass jugs and accidentally banged them together, busting both wide open soaking the carpet. 

Surrounding the front porch, there were cactus plants which taught me early on never to smear your little baby hands all over, I never forgot that lesson and have never planted a cactus.  We called the big window in front a picture window in which each pane was a separate piece of glass.  I'm assuming the term picture window went by the wayside about the same time as the term milkman.

I once took a flying leap onto the side of the porch and landed squarely on the shin of one leg.  That sucker was swollen and bruised for weeks, you didn't rush kids off to the doc back then unless they were bleeding, PROFUSELY.

The bush along the sidewalk was a forsythia.   It was ugly except for when a few days in the spring when it bloomed.  All along the front was a hedge which had to be trimmed quite often.  I remember Mom hacking away at it with the old style, manual hedger.   Years later both the hedge and the forsythia were yanked out.

The leaves on the tree on the left side of the picture was Mike's tree.  There were two big trees in front and two in the back and for some strange rugrat reason, we kids decided that we each had a tree.  Helen and Mike's were in front and Mark and mine were in the back.  Mark had the best climbing tree.  I could climb it even when I was little.  I once climbed so high I could see a big castle on the other side of State Road 37.  When I got older, the "castle" had somehow morphed into a farmer's silo.  Why would someone turn a perfectly wonderful castle into an ordinary silo?  That is not progress, I wonder if they also took away the moat, the princess and the white knight, not that I ever saw them.

On the foundation of the house that is on the right side of the picture, the little white door was where the coal was delivered and dumped into the coal bin in the basement.  I still remember my brothers getting up on cold winter mornings and shoveling more coal into the furnace.

God, I'm old.

This is the house where we all held dad's hands while he passed away in 1992.  It was the only house he ever owned.

It sits empty now.  Do you think the memories are still playing on the side of a wall inside like an old projector when no one is looking?

Saturday, February 13, 2010

This Time Last Week - Update



UPDATE:  Amazingly Kevin has managed to hang on.  Tomorrow they are putting a more permanent feeding tube in along with a tracheotomy.  While he is only showing signs of slight reactions, the swelling and bleeding of his brain has subsided and they are beginning to resume the radiation treatments.

His story has somehow exploded in the media.  Large article tonight in the local paper, several mentions of local and not so local papers and blogs.  Over 26k visits to his caring bridge website.  I can imagine that ourpouring of caring gives just a bit of comfort for his poor parents and siblings, not to mention the extended family.

Tomorrow night, his high school is having a benefit for him during the basketball game.  It's a fairly large school and with all the publicity, I'm sure it will be packed and they will collect quite a bit to cover the health costs and to help the parents who have not been able to leave his bedside to go to work. 

A somewhat official slogan has grown out of all this.  "You've got this Kev."  I hope it's true.  I pray it's true.

Miracles do sometimes happen.  Let's all continue to pray we get to witness one. 



Original Post::

Kevin, it appeared, was a happy healthy 15 year old, playing basketball, football and baseball for his high school team.

Tonight nearly 500 people showed up at the hospital after receiving word that he has 24 to 48 hours left.  His story was broadcast in Kentucky after the Wildcats coach showed up at the hospital earlier this week.  The caring bridge site now has over 10,000 visits.

One of my friends left this note on my fb page.  It was beautiful and I wanted to share it:


prayers going up...praying that God gives family and friends peace and comfort and that His Will be done..praying for all medical staff caring for this child...and mostly praying for this child...Heavenly Father please wrap your loving arms around this child and give him everything he needs at this time...Amen...
That says it all.  

Thursday, February 11, 2010

When Super Bowl Sunday Brings Heartbreak

We were having a few family over for Super Bowl Sunday.  Not many.

My brother was to bring the pizzas, I had made snacks and we were all waiting for a great Colts win. 

The day didn't turn out the way we expected.

And the days following got even worse.

About 30 minutes before the game, Mark called and said he was waiting to see if his wife could make it home before it was time to come over.

Joetta's 15-year-old nephew is an overall athlete, a sophmore at his high school.  With just a couple odd minor symptoms in the last couple weeks, Sunday he woke up and was more or less paralyzed on one side of his body.  He couldn't walk and was slurring his speech.



They rushed him to the emergency room that morning.  Several tests were ran.  By the time Mark called me, it appeared that most of the test didn't appear as serious as the symptoms would suggest.  So Mark first came to the house and an hour later, Joetta left the hospital to come watch the rest of the game.  It was apparently just some type of inflammation and they put him on antibiotics and we were watching the results.

Ironically, Kevin was placed in the new Peyton Manning Childrens Hospital at St. Vincent, on Super Bowl weekend and Kevin is NOT a Colts fan nor a Peyton fan.  The family put posters of Peyton in the room to encourage him to rally up and get out of the hospital as soon as possible.

On Monday, word came back that it may indeed be a tumor in the brain.  They would need a biopsy to determine if it was cancer, the problem was it was located at the pons area of the brain.  They determined that  biopsy could not be performed.

Kevin's favorite coach is from KY Wildcats.  After hearing Kevin's story, Coach Calipari braved the nasty snow storm we had earlier this week and flew up to visit Kevin in the hospital.


Last night, they had a diagnosis.

Pontine Glioma. 

Researching this only brings siginificant heartache.  The "best" news is that with radiation, Kevin will respond well to radiation, recover somewhat and will have a recurrence in 5 to 9 months.  The experts and research all agree that a year is to be expected.

Due to the advancement of the tumor, they began radiation therapy last night and another this morning.   So far the response seems to be less than hopeful.  We are all praying, we all have hope. 

I sincerely want to believe there is fairness in this world.  It's just so hard to see through the fog of pain, stunned disbelief and how a happy healthy 15 year old is playing football, basketball and baseball one minute dealing with some evil deadly tumor the next.

Please, please, pray for a miracle for Kevin tonight and wish all of his family peace.

Sunday, February 7, 2010

Saturday, February 6, 2010

Thursday, February 4, 2010

Anyone else tired of winter?


I know I am.

A Random Picture

I've been a little speechless (blogless) lately.  No real reason.

Tonight I decided to randomly go through my 10k pictures and came upon this one.



It brings back good memories.

Taken at my mom's when she lived on the lake.  My niece(the new mom), my mom and my sister (Cissy Apple), toasting their margarita glasses on a summer evening around the campfire.

Here's to a warm summer night, a wonderful family and many more memories to come.

Tuesday, February 2, 2010

Early Adopters

I first heard the term in some class. Can't remember which, probably Economics. Economics is an antithesis to the mind of an accountant, so I got very little out of the class. Supply and Demand? Yeah, I got that one. But all those other concepts "all things remaining the same except", not so much, mainly because all other things do not remain constant, so it always blew the economic theory in my 2+2=4 ideal world.

Anyway, I did remember the term "early adopters". Those geeky people who have to buy the very first technowhatchamacallit on the first day available. I remember my brother's first Betamax. The thing was the size of a minibarn. I'm pretty sure the price tag was around $800 or so. It was around the time when Reagan was shot because he played the shooting frame by frame over and over again.

A few months ago a big Panasonic truck set up shop where I work.  It was a traveling 3D show.  I went in the trailer not expecting much.  Yeah, yeah, yeah, 3D.  Saw that on my tv set back in the 60's watching Creature From the Black Lagoon. 


So Panasonic is on the road floating out the trial balloon of 3D TV's.  Prepare to be awed.  The glasses read infrared messages from the screen that direct your eyes to the full effect of the 3D.

The 15 minute video is awesome.  Part of it was filmed at the Olympic Opening Ceremonies in China.  The view was shot from the a standing position on the floor when the 2000 drummers were operating in complete unison.  You actually felt like you were standing right next to them.  It really is amazing.

When PC's were making their first appearances, our department purchased one.  Back in the day when they had no hard drives.  You put in a floppy disk with the DOS operating system, took that out, put in the software, took that out and used an empty floppy to save your work.

This was a floppy floppy, not the hard "floppies" that came later.



The first day the CPA I worked for put the disk in and hit a couple buttons and before he knew it he had initialized the operating system on the disk.  POOF.  Gone.  That was my first lesson on what not to do on a pc.

Several years later, my department purchased a "portable" Compaq.  It came with some weird thing called Windows.  I opened Win.exe when we first got it and could not figure out what anyone would use it for.  Made no sense to me and was such a memory hog that you couldn't even open it when we had loaded a few files on the hard drive.  I distinctly remember thinking it was good they gave the Windows away free on the pc, because no one would ever end up buying it.  Yes, I know, I'm not much a visionary. 

Never been an early adopter,  we were late in buying a desktop pc at home.  I finally got a laptop and a wireless connection only two years ago.  We just replaced our rear projection TV with a 55 inch Samsung LED that daily makes me feel more beautiful.  Really.  They should advertise this benefit to get more women buyers.  The reason?   You can see every wrinkle, pimple, pucker, freckle, tiniest scar on every glamorous beauty that you thought was perfect.  I'm just glad I don't see my actual face on it, I might not feel so beautiful then.

So now out comes this new whatchacallit horribly named the I-Pad.  I don't get it.  But then I didn't get Windows either at first. 



Seriously.  Is this necessary?  It just looks to me like something one of those early adopters will buy and destroy within a month by dropping it.  How are you supposed to hang on to it? 

I can just imagine Dooney & Bourke is rushing around creating an over priced I-Pad skin to get on the market next week. 

The Winning Strategy

Pretty simple, really. And funny.


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